Be Present

I woke up this morning and living in the moment was resonating within me. Sometimes we get so caught up on the destination we overlook the beauty to be found in the moment. 

Today, pause, deep breath in and slow breath out, smile, and enjoy the moment. 



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This Year Really is Going to be Different

“This year is going to be different. Really! I’m serious this time. This is going to be my year. I mean it this time.”  More than likely, you’ve probably said this a time or two. I know that I have. However, even though this may have been my mantra a time or two, I have noticed that the times where my year was different, it was because I took intentional steps to make it different. Surprisingly (although it should not have been), I found my steps wrapped up in the definition of one very provocative word, SUCCESS.

Success:“the favorable or prosperous termination of attempts or endeavors; the accomplishment of one’s goals.” dictionary.com

Several things immediately got my attention after I read the definition of success.

  • Goals. If I’m going to have a successful year I need to define what a successful year looks like to me.
  • Favorable or prosperous. Success isn’t always about money.
  • Attempts. I can’t have success if I’m not “attempting” anything. So, if I want to have an amazing year I have to do something to make it happen.
  • Accomplishment. If I start it I should finish it.

For my year to be successful and amazing I am going to have to sit down and think about what I want as it relates to my personal life and my business (favorable or prosperous goals).  After I know what I want, I am going to have to do the work (attempts) necessary to have the life that I want for the year (accomplishment). That’s it, so simple right!

Create and Live the Month You Really Want

A month you want to wake up and live all the time!

Not living life the way you would really like to?

Is it sometimes a struggle for you to wake up each day?

Is the frustration of living a dull, predictable life a reality for you?

Do you know what you want but haven’t figured out how you’re going to do it?

Are days, months, years, slipping by?

Are you having trouble turning your days into ones that you jump out of bed for?

Do you wish your month were filled with you doing the things you really want to do?

Rest assured…

You can learn to create and live months that you really want,

You can learn how to create the month that you really want to be living and have more joy and happiness .  Creating  and living months that you really want to live doesn’t have to be stressful if you do it in a way that is authentic to who you are. And yes, planning can be fun (especially when you start seeing the results that you want, like waking up excited to start the day instead of not wanting to wake up and face the day).  And when you start creating months that you really want you are much more likely to live them too.

Sound unattainable or too much of a dream? It’s not. Read on…

Ok, so what’s not working? What are you doing wrong?

If you’re like most people I’ve met, there is so much that you want to do but you can’t imagine how you are going to get it done. You may be working hard, your days are full, and there’s hardly time to think about what you really want, much less actually do it.

The problem is not taking the time to think about what you want is not going to make your life any richer. Why? Well, think about it…Are the people you know who dream or talk about doing something happy with their lives?  You can spot a dreamer after talking to them for just a few minutes.  They talk about “what they wish they could do but…” or “what they will do one day.”   It’s sad. Unfortunately, that’s what most of us do when we try to create a month we really want. We look like talkers, dreamers. And that doesn’t give us the life we really want.

You can stop being a dreamer and talker. Here’s how…

Creating and living a month that you really want comes from understanding what you want. We usually think of living a full and exciting life as reserved for someone else, someone with more time or more money, instead of “something you have a right to live.”

And when we have the mindset that living a full and exciting life is for someone else, it doesn’t matter what we try to do, we won’t have the life that we want or need.  In Creating and Living the Month you Really Want, what works is knowing what you want. This makes all the difference in whether you create and live the life you really want.

A month that you really want starts with getting clear on what you want, mapping it out, and living it. This is not hard, especially when someone shows you exactly how to do it.

This strategy ends your frustration and disappointment. Let’s face it, who doesn’t want to have a month that you look forward to enjoying. It’s worth it, now and later.

Ok, so how can I get help in creating a month that I have always wanted?

Create and Live the Month You Really Want Teleclass will help you create meaningful days, fast.

To registar visit: www.gethappytools.com

Only the hurting need apply

If you’re hurting and feel like the world has let you down I want to help you.  In your life’s journey there are so many paths that you can take. Unfortunately, sometimes the path you are on leads you on a journey that has you feeling defeated and hopeless. Your journey doesn’t have to end there and I want to guide you to a path filled with hope, passion, love, joy, and purpose. If this is the path you’ve been looking for in your life I want to talk with you. https://www.timetrade.com/book/Q4QLL

Clarity Brings Opportunity

Has this ever happened to you? A friend gets a new car, let’s say a Porsche Cayenne. You didn’t know what a Cayenne looked like until you saw your friend’s car. What happens next? You start noticing Cayenne’s several times a day. Why are these cars suddenly showing up? They’re not! They’ve always been there but, thanks to your friend, you have just become aware of them.

Taking the time to clarify what you want in life opens the door to opportunity. Once you know what you want your eyes open and you become aware of opportunities that have always been there but you never noticed them before.

What opportunities are you missing because you won’t take the time to get clear about what you want out of life?

Don’t Underestimate the Power of Simplicity

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Have you noticed that when something is simple or readily available we tend to ignore it? Unfortunately, the very things we overlook are usually what we need most. What are you overlooking that could result in that big shift that you want in your life, your business, your career, or your relationships? Today I invite you to to take a simple step.

Share your simple step in the comment box below.

Time to Celebrate

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Today celebrate your life.  There are many in the world, maybe even in your circle, who would love the life that you’re unhappy about.  Take a few moments and think of one thing that you can do differently today that would turn your frown upside down. Make it a great day!

I’d love for you to share what you’re smiling about today.

Is Fear Holding You Back?

When you think about your ideal life do you feel excited or do you feel afraid? If the thought of living a better life scares you it’s worth it to explore the origin of your fear.

There are many reasons why living a life that you really want may scare you.  Let’s identify some of them. 

1.  I’m afraid to live my dream life.
2.  I’m afraid to do what I need to do in order to have the life that I want.
3.  I’m afraid because I don’t deserve to have the life that I want.
4.  I’m afraid my family and friends will treat me differently if I live my dream life.
5. I’m afraid that I don’t want my dream life bad enough to go after it.

Whatever your fear, be honest with yourself and acknowledge it.  Once you acknowledge the fear something happens on the inside of you.  You are now in position to bring about change in your life.  Choose well.

I’d love for you to share in the comments the fear that you identified in your life.

5 Steps to a Happy Life Teleclass

I would like to invite you to join me for a 1hr teleclass on creating a happy life.  If you use words like “I’m in a rut, something is missing, I’m depressed, I feel stuck” you don’t want to miss this opportunity to bring change in your life.  Register today by clicking here